Bullying in any form should have no place in society. Unfortunately, it still happens, particularly in schools. It is even said that more than half of all children are involved; they can be the bully, the victim, or a witness to this type of incidences.
No parents would want to see their kid being bullied. But if it does happen, they should take the necessary steps to make sure that their child is not permanently affected by it, and that the bullying stops.
Ensure constructive anger
A normal response to bullying is anger, but if the family lets rage dictate their next step, the situation can worsen. The urge to immediately charge the bully, his parents, or school officials, should be avoided. Instead, it is important to channel anger into creating a constructive strategy, which involves harmoniously working with school officials.
Empathize with the child
A bullied child can feel a plethora of negative emotions in addition to hurt, including helplessness, fear, loneliness, and powerlessness. Some parents would mistakenly tell their child to toughen up or to fight back. But this could result in even more demoralization. The best thing to do is to assure the child that he has an ally in his parents.
Study the law
There are anti-bullying policies that schools are legally required to implement and adhere to, as well as state anti-bullying legislation that covers all forms of bullying. If bullying persists, there are legal actions that could be taken.
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